One of the trickier decisions leading up to the birth of a second baby is whether or not to have the older sibling present for the birth of the new addition. The idea can be both exciting and intimidating, but here are four ways to frame your decision-making process to arrive at the right solution for your family. 1. Know Your Child(ren) Think about your child's personality in daily life. Is she a self-soother, or more needy? Is he enthralled with the idea of his baby sibling